{"id":52051,"date":"2025-01-05T08:19:14","date_gmt":"2025-01-05T08:19:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/?p=52051"},"modified":"2025-01-05T13:03:44","modified_gmt":"2025-01-05T13:03:44","slug":"get-over-ghosting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/get-over-ghosting\/","title":{"rendered":"6 personal steps for super emotional girls to get over ghosting*Try #Tip 5 sis*"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-9::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-9{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-10::before{padding-top:209.83606557377%; }img#mv-trellis-img-10{display:block;}<\/style><p><strong>He ghosted me, what should I do?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First thing first, sis, I feel you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Being ghosted<\/strong> is literally <em>the worst feeling <\/em>on earth. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to <a href=\"https:\/\/jealousychallenge.com\/?utm_campaign=jealousy-challenge&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=pr&amp;utm_content=juliana&amp;affiliate=julianamartins\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17912\"><strong>Darcy Sterling<\/strong><\/a>, a New York City-based therapist, she said:<em> &ldquo;It&rsquo;s normal to assume you&rsquo;ve done something wrong when a love interest disappears without explanation.&rdquo;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&rsquo;s why being ghosted hurts so much &ndash; it&rsquo;s a mixed emotion from anger, confusion, sadness, loneliness, and helplessness.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"what to do after being ghosted\" class=\"wp-image-78815\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"eager\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20488%201024'%3E%3Crect%20width='488'%20height='1024'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"what to do after being ghosted\" class=\"wp-image-78815 eager-load\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-488x1024.jpg.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-1.jpg.webp 736w\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>We logically know we aren&rsquo;t disposable rubbish but somehow it just feels like it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So yes, being ghosted really sucks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That said, you are definitely not alone and now I&rsquo;m trying to offer raw steps to cope with ghosting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tried it out myself and it works so hopefully it&rsquo;s helpful!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"color:#32373c;background-color:#ff3860\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-notice gb-font-size-18 gb-block-notice\" data-id=\"19efc5\"><div class=\"gb-notice-title\" style=\"color:#fff\"><p>Please take these advise with a pinch of salt, I am not a professional counselor <\/p><\/div><div class=\"gb-notice-text\" style=\"border-color:#ff3860\">\n<p>It&rsquo;s actually quite vulnerable for me to share all these steps as that&rsquo;s my personal experience. I am not sure if these tips help because everyone has their own set of logic &ndash; so please take it as a reference &#128150;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Understand the neuropsychology of ghosting<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>First thing first, understand the human nature that we subconsciously want an explanation about something we don&rsquo;t understand. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When someone ghosts us, that triggers our whole brain activity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It activates a systemic experience of loss that stems from our <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/embolden.world\/the-neuropsychology-of-ghosting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17913\">amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex<\/a><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you know it&rsquo;s scientifically normal to have that kind of sadness and desperation <em>( The thought of I can do everything if he\/she comes back to my life)<\/em>, at least you will have a certain level of compassion for yourself and understand it&rsquo;s okay to have all sort of emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to cope with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78810\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to cope with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78810 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/gixlol\/status\/1429584465869819911\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17914\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\">\n\n\n\n<p>These days, the attachment theory is all the rage these days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think it&rsquo;s so important to NOT identify your sadness of being ghosted because you have an anxious attachment and you should FIX yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&rsquo;t be that harsh to yourself and I&rsquo;m sure regardless of your attachment style, everyone will feel sad and betrayed about being ghosted! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember, you already suffer a lot &ndash; don&rsquo;t add an extra layer of guilt to this whole situation.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"being ghsoted quote\" class=\"wp-image-78817\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"being ghsoted quote\" class=\"wp-image-78817 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>STOP thinking you are overreacting, being ghosted is like undergoing through drug withdrawal, of course you want to find him back and seek validation from him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nothing&rsquo;s wrong with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are already trying your very best to resist the temptation and reading this post now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am PROUD OF YOU. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\">\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Keep watching YouTube videos <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are an emotional girl, I&rsquo;m pretty sure just doing Step 1 is not enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To release your full-blown emotions, keep watching YouTube videos with the titles <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=G9ElUzeV1oA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17915\">&ldquo;How to get over anyone FAST ASF&rdquo;<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=EpDcABhFaCw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17916\">&ldquo;How to become unf*ckable with &amp; unplayable&rdquo; <\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>and more.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to deal with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78820\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to deal with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78820 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>The high chance is after watching 20 videos in a row, you will still feel those boiling emotions but at least you feel someone <em>(The Youtuber)<\/em> understands you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&rsquo;s a certain level of comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And by watching these YouTube videos, you slowly release a certain part of anger and sadness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this moment, you have to find an exit from your emotions, and watching videos certainly helps.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to cope with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78808\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to cope with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78808 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\">\n\n\n\n<p>Some other ways are going to forums like Reddit, and Quora and reading other people&rsquo;s stories &ndash; that will make you feel better as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\">\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Understand that you won&rsquo;t have this feeling FOREVER<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In this moment, I get it, the temptation is SO REAL.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You want to text him a long text so bad, keep calling him until he picks up, looking for the explanation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&rsquo;d say <strong>STOP.<\/strong> (Slap you in the face)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are two logical reasons: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1)  If you want him to come back <em>( Trust me you will feel silly when you get over this guy after 2 weeks LOL), finding him is NOT GONNA <\/em>help the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you just accept being ghosted, leave him alone, and live your life as if nothing happened, there&rsquo;s a chance that after a period of time he will find you back. <em>(You can check out the science behind this phenomenon on YT)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually, I will suggest you ghost him when he comes back later LOL<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to cope with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78809\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to cope with ghosting\" class=\"wp-image-78809 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/22how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-6\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>You definitely deserve better sis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2) Rmb that NO RESPONSE (ghosting) is already a response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ghosting = he is not interested in you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He might have a certain level of interest in you but NOT HIGH enough to keep in contact with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. STOP FINDING EXCUSES <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ladies, we all know how imaginative we can be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, is that because he lost his phone and can&rsquo;t contact me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, is that because he is playing a hot and cold mind game with me and actually secretly waiting for me to find him?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, MEN isn&rsquo;t as complicated as us &ndash; they are mission-oriented and they do what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To stop all the excuses in your mind, you just have to keep telling yourself,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>If he wanted to, He would<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Seriously, keep telling yourself this line, your brain desperately needs it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Create Fake Hope to buy time<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&rsquo;t think everyone needs this step but if you are a hyper-sensitive or super-emotional girl, being ghosted by your crush or getting over a situation can REALLY feel like a catastrophe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After going through previous step 4, you might still feel like SxIT and it&rsquo;s okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&rsquo;s do Step 5 &ndash; BEING DELUSIONAL to buy time.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78824\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78824 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I&rsquo;d suggest you shut down your phone or delete the whole WhatsApp <em>(or any kind of texting tool you and ghoster were using) <\/em>and wait for perhaps 2 or 3 days (or even a week) to open that back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That way, you can have a fake hope that he might already find you back and you can have 3 or 4 days of peace before facing reality again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The point of using this strategy is BUY TIME for yourself to still function well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust me, after 3-4 days, part of your logical side will take back and your emotions will feel less overwhelmed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you download back the Whatsapp, your emotional state is already different, and even if he doesn&rsquo;t find you, it&rsquo;s not as hurtful as you would have imagined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. DISTRACT YOURSELF<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Actually, keeping distracting yourself is the fundamental step to getting over this whole messy ghosting thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Staying busy might not be a long-term solution but definitely an effective short-term coping mechanism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just being occupied with tasks helps take your mind off of what&rsquo;s bothering you.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78826\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78826 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/23how-to-cope-ghosting_1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\">\n\n\n\n<p>For me, the worst thing ever is staying in your room with the curtain closed and feeling super isolated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes when you are deeply in your head, that hopelessness can drag you into a dark hole that no one can understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\">\n\n\n\n<p>Depending on your emotional state, these are some things you can do:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>keep showing up in the office and working on your job <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Download a dating app and start scrolling (even if you don&rsquo;t feel like it &ndash; as what you want is a <em>distraction)<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Keep asking your friends out every night to keep yourself occupied and tired <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Find a short-term goal to accomplish <em>(That one really works as it gives you a sense of accomplishment)<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78827\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78827 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/24how-to-cope-ghosting_1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-9\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Think about doing 16\/8 fasting, starting a new hobby like Zumba, going to the gym, and more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are in the depressed stage and feel like you don&rsquo;t have any energy to do your normal things (like going to work or meeting friends), at least force yourself to <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Get out of the house and sit under sunlight <em>(That helps immensely)<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get a facial or nail appointment <em>(So you can stay silent if that makes you feel comfortable)<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do some shopping <em>(Shopping therapy is real sis, if you worry you will spend too much, go thrifting so you won&rsquo;t feel too guilty afterward)<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Embrace the whole journey<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Last but not least, embrace the whole ghosting journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep doing step 1 to step 6 until you feel better&hellip;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a super emotional ISFP, I totally understand how hurtful you are right now. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But trust me, the feeling comes and goes and eventually one day you will get over this whole ghosting thing.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78828\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"488\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"how to handle being ghosted \" class=\"wp-image-78828 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-488x1024.jpg.webp 488w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-143x300.jpg.webp 143w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-457x960.jpg.webp 457w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-514x1080.jpg.webp 514w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting-572x1200.jpg.webp 572w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg.webp 736w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/25how-to-cope-ghosting.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-10\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>One day, you will see this whole thing from a new perspective and that&rsquo;s the moment you realize you already move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that&rsquo;s the moment you realize you are stronger than you think you are &#128578;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"color:#32373c;background-color:#ff3860\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-notice gb-font-size-18 gb-block-notice\" data-id=\"3fc5a4\"><div class=\"gb-notice-title\" style=\"color:#fff\"><p>The truth is, there are many girls out there being ghosted like you &hellip;&#129401;<\/p><\/div><div class=\"gb-notice-text\" style=\"border-color:#ff3860\">\n<p>If you find these tips useful, please help me pin or share this post so more ladies can feel better x<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks love &ndash; the girl power is real &#129401;&#128150;<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">FINAL THOUGHTS:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So there you go &ndash; the 6 steps if you are wondering <strong>how to get over ghosting.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What are your thoughts on that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I hope after reading this post makes you feel better.  Trust me, I am a hyper sensitive ISFP, if I can deal with it, you can do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Send you virtual hug here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Looking for more self-love ideas? Check out these blog post ideas down below &ndash; see you love!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/how-to-dress-after-a-breakup\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17917\">How to GLOW UP &amp; dress after a breakup&#10024;? 6 styling rules to blossom!<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/signs-he-is-chivalry-gentleman\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17918\">*Yes they still exist!* 20 signs he is a chivalry gentleman<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/find-rich-successful-friends\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17919\">*How to find rich &amp; successful friends:13 tested way!<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/lunch-date-friendzone-is-he-interested\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"17920\">If a guy asks you on a lunch date is he interested or friendzoned? 5 scenarios!<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He ghosted me, what should I do? 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