{"id":102509,"date":"2025-06-25T07:25:17","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T07:25:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/?p=102509"},"modified":"2025-10-12T04:31:40","modified_gmt":"2025-10-12T04:31:40","slug":"what-not-to-wear-first-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/what-not-to-wear-first-date\/","title":{"rendered":"What not to wear on a first date? 12 fits + boost attractiveness tool!"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-9::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-9{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-10::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-10{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-11::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-11{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-12::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-12{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-13::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-13{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-14::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-14{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-15::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-15{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-16::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-16{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-17::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-17{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-18::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-18{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-19::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-19{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-20::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-20{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-21::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-21{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-22::before{padding-top:177.77777777778%; }img#mv-trellis-img-22{display:block;}<\/style><p>Ladies, let&rsquo;s get real about<strong> first date fashion<\/strong> today! &#9888;&#65039; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today we&rsquo;re talking about what to AVOID wearing when meeting someone special.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"FIRST DATE outfit ideas women\" class=\"wp-image-108245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"eager\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20576%201024'%3E%3Crect%20width='576'%20height='1024'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"FIRST DATE outfit ideas women\" class=\"wp-image-108245 eager-load\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-576x1024.jpg.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-2.jpg.webp 1080w\" data-svg=\"1\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/4925880836544884\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22120\">Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>While we all want that magical love-is-in-the-air feeling &#10024;, sometimes our outfit choices can send the wrong message. <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"cute outfit date\" class=\"wp-image-110159\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"cute outfit date\" class=\"wp-image-110159 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/asian-baddie-outfit-ideas-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>No one wants to admit it, but what we think looks gorgeous might actually be creating the wrong impression.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"FIRST DATE outfit ideas women\" class=\"wp-image-108246\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"FIRST DATE outfit ideas women\" class=\"wp-image-108246 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/women-first-date-outfit-1-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/1970393581796822\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22121\"> Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>So yea ladies, I&rsquo;ve gathered  12 outfit elements and tips when it comes to what NOT to wear on a date &ndash; pin some of these photos for later reference &lt;3<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"color:#32373c;background-color:#ff3860\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-notice gb-font-size-18 gb-block-notice\" data-id=\"fb2fe5\"><div class=\"gb-notice-title\" style=\"color:#fff\"><p>BY THE WAY PRETTIES &hellip;<\/p><\/div><div class=\"gb-notice-text\" style=\"border-color:#ff3860\">\n<p>By the way, stay <strong>till the end<\/strong> and download the free dating freebie to boost your attractiveness &lt;3!!.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That questions list can make your bonding with your date WAY DEEPER. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you are a gal or a guy reading this, you will need that!<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>And I also include the attractiveness boosting perfume at the end of the blog post &ndash; enjoy &lt;3!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Wear pastel shades can be a good choice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In a sea of standard blacks, browns, and dark tones, guess how can you give a lowkey <em>&ldquo;wow&rdquo;<\/em> factor and leave a good impression?!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/WHAT-TO-WEAR-ON-FIRST-DATE-IN-WINTER-that-guys-love-Women-outfit-and-shoes-Lady-Refines-2-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"what to wear on first date \"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/WHAT-TO-WEAR-ON-FIRST-DATE-IN-WINTER-that-guys-love-Women-outfit-and-shoes-Lady-Refines-2-1-1.jpg.webp\" alt=\"what to wear on first date \" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/girlsharestips.com\/date-night-outfits\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22122\">1<\/a>,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.shopstyle.com\/shop\/christine-andrew\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22123\">2<\/a>,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.hopikas.com\/products\/embroidered-dress\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22124\">3<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Pastel shades like dusty pink, cream, and lavender! &#128149;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Choose colors that typical straight guys don&rsquo;t usually wear &ndash; that&rsquo;s definitely the right approach!  <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"first date pastel outfit ideas\" class=\"wp-image-108180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"first date pastel outfit ideas\" class=\"wp-image-108180 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-1-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><strong>Follow <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/hannahnfashion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22125\">@hannahnfashion<\/a> for more fashion inspo &lt;3<\/strong><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>We all understand how colors influence our moods, right? &#10024;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For first dates, lighter hues are simply magical to look at! &#127800; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These soft colors not only enhance your feminine charm but also make your entire appearance more memorable.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"first date yellow top outfits\" class=\"wp-image-108181\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"first date yellow top outfits\" class=\"wp-image-108181 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-3.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-6\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Follow <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/hannahnfashion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22126\">@hannahnfashion<\/a> for more fashion inspo &lt;3<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Whenever I slip into my pastel purple coat, I instantly feel more vibrant and refreshed compared to wearing a standard black one! &#128156; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The difference in my confidence is absolutely noticeable &ndash; such a mood boster!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#10084;&#65039;Girl&rsquo;s fashion hack #1:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Use nail polish clear coat on fraying thread ends to stop further unraveling until you can properly repair the item! <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. DON&rsquo;T BE TOO OVER THE TOP<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ladies, we all know you&rsquo;re fashion-forward, but maybe save the full diva aesthetic for later dates during winter <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#128081; Men might feel a bit overwhelmed and even get intimidated. <em>(depends on the personality)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"what to wear first date women\" class=\"wp-image-108212\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"what to wear first date women\" class=\"wp-image-108212 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-8-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/20336635812953841\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22127\">Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Showing up in your gorgeous vegan fur and glamorous outfit could come across as slightly intimidating on a first meeting &#128517;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Beautiful queens, aim for that sweet spot between fabulous style and approachable vibes &#10024; Balance is key!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For instance, loving that edgy biker aesthetic? <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"what to wear first date women\" class=\"wp-image-108213\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"what to wear first date women\" class=\"wp-image-108213 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-9-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/68743791969\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22128\">Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Instead of going head-to-toe leather and studs, try softening your cool leather jacket with a pretty floral maxi dress &#127800; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those personality-packed combat boots will still show off your amazing style while keeping things wonderfully balanced! &#128098;&#128149;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#10084;&#65039;Girl&rsquo;s fashion hack #2:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prevent button-down shirts from gapping between buttons by using <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/AITOLY-Double-Sided-malfunctions-Skin-Friendly-Non-irritating\/dp\/B0F8QDS4DG?tag=mrdefines-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow sponsored noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"25689\" data-lasso-name=\"AITOLY Double-Sided Fashion Tape for Garments, hemlines and necklines, Dress Tape for Closet malfunctions, Skin-Friendly and Non-irritating, Two Models (20pc)\">double-sided fashion tape<\/a><\/strong> &lt;3<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Wear red to boost attractive<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you aren&rsquo;t aware of the red dress effect, well, NOW you know and should harness that! (in case you really like this guy :p)<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"red dress first date outfit\" class=\"wp-image-108236\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"red dress first date outfit\" class=\"wp-image-108236 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-10-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-9\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/11329436557945802\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22129\">Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>The red dress effect, is a phenomenon <em>(scientifically proved &ndash; for the ones who are curious here&rsquo;s the <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.science.org\/content\/article\/red-dress-effect\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22130\">study<\/a><\/strong>)<\/em> in which the color red increases physical attraction, sexual desire, and romantic sentiments in comparison to other colors.&#128150;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"red dress first date outfit\" class=\"wp-image-108237\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"red dress first date outfit\" class=\"wp-image-108237 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-11-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-10\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/177751516537353049\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22131\">Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I truly feel like a body-hugging red dress can be perfect for a romantic date night.&#128150;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Below are two decent and body-flattering dress that truly bring out the femininity and would look good on a wide range of body type &lt;3<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"first date knit dress outfits\" class=\"wp-image-93434\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"first date knit dress outfits\" class=\"wp-image-93434 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits13.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-11\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Get this <a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+-Lw_ZsU6l3WF8yjklMk0pg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22132\">gorgeous knit dress<\/a> on NORDSTORM<\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>The high side split design just draw eyes upwards and make your legs appear to be way taller!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\">\n\n\n\n<p>Such an elegant dress &ndash; I hope this one is still in stock!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"first date outfit red dress\" class=\"wp-image-93435\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"first date outfit red dress\" class=\"wp-image-93435 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/knit-dress-winter-first-date-outfits14.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-12\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><strong>Get this <a href=\"https:\/\/rstyle.me\/+jgzQEFvGpQKSCryuWH94nQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22133\">gorgeous knit dress<\/a> on NORDSTORM<\/strong><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>A bodycon dress at its finest &ndash; trust me, this is sure to turn heads!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><br>&#10084;&#65039;Girl&rsquo;s fashion hack #3:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rub clear deodorant on the inside hem of pants\/skirts to prevent thigh chafing. &#10084;&#65039;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Say no to outfits that require constant adjusting &#128556;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Avoid those pesky outfits that have you constantly fidgeting and adjusting all night long! &#128581;&zwj;&#9792;&#65039; <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"what not to wear on a date\" class=\"wp-image-108203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"what not to wear on a date\" class=\"wp-image-108203 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-6-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-13\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><strong>Follow <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/hannahnfashion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22134\">@hannahnfashion<\/a> for more fashion inspo &lt;3<\/strong><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Nothing kills the romantic vibe faster than tugging at a too-long cami strap that keeps slipping down your shoulder every five minutes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not only does it create an awkward visual (hello, distracted date!), but it completely pulls your focus away from the conversation. &#128172; <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"what to not wear on first date\" class=\"wp-image-108204\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"what to not wear on first date\" class=\"wp-image-108204 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-7-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-14\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><strong>Follow <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/hannahnfashion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22135\">@hannahnfashion<\/a> for more fashion inspo &lt;3<\/strong><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>How can you charm him with your brilliant personality when you&rsquo;re mentally tracking wardrobe malfunctions? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust me, ladies &ndash; both you and your date deserve better than spending the evening watching you wrestle with uncooperative clothing! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Choose pieces that let you relax, be present, and actually enjoy getting to know each other. &#10024;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><br>&#10084;&#65039;Girl&rsquo;s fashion hack #4:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Use rolled-up magazine pages to maintain boot shape when storing &ndash; truly work wonders imo lol<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. When in doubt, add a belt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For the girlies who wanna stay comfy in boxy fit, I get you.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/WHAT-TO-WEAR-ON-FIRST-DATE-IN-WINTER-that-guys-love-Women-outfit-and-shoes-Lady-Refines-9-1-1.jpg\" alt=\"first date outfit that guys love\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/WHAT-TO-WEAR-ON-FIRST-DATE-IN-WINTER-that-guys-love-Women-outfit-and-shoes-Lady-Refines-9-1-1.jpg.webp\" alt=\"first date outfit that guys love\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-15\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/70437479947629\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22136\">1<\/a>,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/597993656758493127\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22137\">2<\/a>,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.extrapetite.com\/2018\/03\/white-ruffle-dress-work-outfit.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22138\">3<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>But what about add a belt to sculpt things out? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if you are wearing an off-duty ensemble like a plain tee and A-line skirt, you can instantly glam up your look with a well-fitted trench coat.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"belt outfit ideas\" class=\"wp-image-99385\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"belt outfit ideas\" class=\"wp-image-99385 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/waistcoat-with-belt-outfit-ideas4.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-16\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#10084;&#65039;Girl&rsquo;s fashion hack #5:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stretch tight shoes by wearing them with thick socks and blowing them with <strong>a hairdryer<\/strong>! <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Uncomfortable new shoes is a PASS &#128096;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Those oh-so-sassy stilettos are calling your name for that first date, I get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But HOLD UP &ndash; cause reality and what you have in mind sometimes just doesn&rsquo;t match&#128148;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"What to not wear on first date\" class=\"wp-image-108193\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"What to not wear on first date\" class=\"wp-image-108193 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-4-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-17\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/11399805458394594\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22139\">Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Actually, it depends on the nature of the date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>High heels are totally fine for a fine dining date, especially you commute through Uber. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But for those longer get-to-know-you dates? Your feet will thank you for choosing those cute chunky heels instead! &#128076;&#10024;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"What to not wear on first date\" class=\"wp-image-108194\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"What to not wear on first date\" class=\"wp-image-108194 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/what-not-to-wear-on-first-date-5-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-18\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/914862421051088\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22140\">Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Let&rsquo;s be real &ndash; we&rsquo;ve all experienced that mood shift when our toes are screaming and we&rsquo;re doing that painful hobble walk&hellip; not exactly the vibe we&rsquo;re going for! &#128553;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So yea, remember your outfit formula: equal parts gorgeous AND comfortable! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That way your amazing personality <em>(not your aching feet) <\/em>becomes the star of the date! &#128129;&zwj;&#9792;&#65039;&#128150;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#10084;&#65039;Girl&rsquo;s fashion hack #6:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quick fix &ndash; Brighten yellowed white clothing by soaking in a solution of lemon juice and hot water!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"color:#32373c;background-color:#ff3860\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-notice gb-font-size-18 gb-block-notice\" data-id=\"d1c3e7\"><div class=\"gb-notice-title\" style=\"color:#fff\"><p>If you are reading this blog post till now, there&rsquo;s one thing for sure&hellip; <\/p><\/div><div class=\"gb-notice-text\" style=\"border-color:#ff3860\">\n<p>You have good taste! &lt;3 If you approve of some of these looks, please kindly <strong>pin<\/strong> or <strong>share<\/strong> some of these outfits so many tasteful fashion babes can come across this outfit inspo, thanks pretty! &#10084;&#65039;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"share women fashion content\" class=\"wp-image-112211\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"share women fashion content\" class=\"wp-image-112211 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/share-fashion-content-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-19\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>And&hellip;it would truly mean the world to me if you stay until the very end. &#10084;&#65039; <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. 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40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1.jpg.webp\" alt=\"perfume for date\" class=\"wp-image-59304 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1.jpg.webp 1000w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1-300x300.jpg.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1-150x150.jpg.webp 150w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1-768x768.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1-80x80.jpg.webp 80w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1-600x600.jpg.webp 600w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1-728x728.jpg.webp 728w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1-960x960.jpg.webp 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/pheromone-perfume-oil-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-21\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>And if you like him, I highly suggest you save this classic 36 love questions to deepen the bonding between you guys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you like him, I highly suggest you save this classic 36 love questions to deepen the bonding between you guys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#10084;&#65039;Girl&rsquo;s fashion hack #7:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whenever I feel bloated, I&rsquo;ll always use a rubber band to loop through a button hole and around the button for a temporary fix to pants that are too tight!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"what to bring for the first date\" class=\"wp-image-86308\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-540x960.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-608x1080.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-675x1200.jpg 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-576x1024.jpg.webp\" alt=\"what to bring for the first date\" class=\"wp-image-86308 lazyload\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-576x1024.jpg.webp 576w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-169x300.jpg.webp 169w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-768x1365.jpg.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-540x960.jpg.webp 540w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-608x1080.jpg.webp 608w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1-675x1200.jpg.webp 675w, https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1.jpg.webp 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 720px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/what-to-bring-to-first-date-first-date-bags-essentials-2-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-22\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>These questions aren&rsquo;t made up by me, it&rsquo;s scientifically proven! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rd.com\/list\/arthur-aron-36-questions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22145\">Reader&rsquo;s Digest<\/a><\/strong>, this <strong>36 fall-in-love quiz<\/strong> is invented by Psychologist Arthur Aron.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides the love relationship and marriage, these questions actually improve every kind of relationship from friendship to family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And guess what, many people do use these questions for themselves &ndash; that&rsquo;s like a self-discovery journey!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So yes, regardless of your age and relationship status, these questions are to nurture your relationship and make you know someone way deeper than 10 shallow dates! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks for reading and now please feel free to click the link down below!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Check to download <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/36-love-questions-printables-1-1.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22146\">36 fall in love questions PDF<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Check to download <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ladyrefines.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/36-love-questions-printables-card.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-lasso-id=\"22147\">36 fall in love questions card PDF<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">FINAL THOUGHTS:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So there you go my loves &ndash; the 12 outfit and styling tips if you are wondering<strong> what to NOT wear on a first date.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thoughts on these? 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